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'Glee' Cast And Crew Gather For 'Emotional' Cory Monteith Memorial Service

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After Cory Monteith died from an overdose of heroin and alcohol earlier this month, his "Glee" family finally came together Thursday to remember their beloved co-star.

20th Century Fox TV released the below statement on Monteith's memorial service:

Today, Ryan Murphy and Lea Michele gathered the cast, crew and producers of Glee, along with colleagues from the network and studio, to share memories and music in an emotional celebration of the life of Cory Monteith. We thank the public for their continued outpouring of love and support as we grieve our friend and colleague during this difficult time.

More than 150 mourners attended the event on the Paramount studio lot, each reportedly wearing a black ribbon in Monteith’s honor.

After the ceremony,  co-star Chris Colfer tweetedI'll never forget all the laughs we shared or the faces we made after awkward interview questions. Love and miss you, buddy."

Monteith's co-star and girlfriend, Lea Michele, has only released a brief statement thanking fans for their support and saying she is "grieving alongside" Monteith's family.

Fox announced that "Glee" will delay their season five premiere in the wake of the young actor’s death.

Show creator Ryan Murphy has also said that the third episode of the upcoming will deal with the death of Finn Hudson, Monteith’s character.

“Glee” writers will reportedly then take a hiatus to determine how to best continue with the remainder of the season's plot line.

"Murphy says that Michele was consulted on all decisions, and producers gave her the opportunity to proceed as she wanted,"reports GossipCop. "The actress let the 'Glee' team know that she’ll be back and working as soon as production begins."

SEE ALSO: A History Of Cory Monteith And Lea Michele's 'Gleeful'-Turned-Tragic Romance

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Three 'Hot Shot' Firefighters Had One Of The Most Moving Military Funerals We Have Ever Seen

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Fellow members of the Hotshots carry Travis’ casket into Heights Church in Prescott, Ariz, July 10. The camaraderie between the Hotshot crew members was similar to what Travis and the other Marine veterans had experienced while in the Corps.

On July 11, family, friends, and colleagues gathered to say their final goodbyes to three firefighters who were part of the 19 Granite Mountain Hotshots who died in Arizona wildfires .

Those three recieved military honors because they weren't only firefighters, they were also U.S. Marines.

"Going in I knew that this was a big deal," said Marine Cpl. Chelsea Flowers Anderson, the military photographer who documented the honors. "I wanted to do these families and these men justice."

You can find Flowers' write-up on the funeral here, it's definitely worth a read.

On June 30, 2013, 19 Granite Mountain Hotshot firefighters gave their lives protecting the community of Yarnell, Ariz., from a wildfire. Among those killed were three Marine veterans: Cpl. Jesse Steed, Lance Cpl. Travis Turbyfill and Cpl. Billy Warneke.



Nearly half the Hotshots were dedicated family men, including Travis, who wanted to become a structural firefighter so he could spend more time with his family.



Fellow members of the Hotshots carry Travis’ casket into Heights Church in Prescott, Ariz, July 10. The camaraderie between the Hotshot crew members was similar to what Travis and the other Marine veterans had experienced while in the Corps.



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Rihanna Sued For Allegedly Not Paying Grandma's Massive Funeral Bill

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Rihanna was extremely close with her "Gran Gran Dolly," so when she passed away last June from cancer, the singer made sure to send her out in style.

After her body was sent to Barbados for burial, Rihanna threw her grandmother a celebration of life that included party tents, multi-media large screens and huge exotic floral arrangements.

"The company that threw grandma's final shindig claims the grand total was more than $150,000,"reports TMZ, adding that "Rihanna paid only about a quarter of that and refused to pay more."

The lawsuit states that Rihanna claimed the bill was exorbitant and she refused to pay the balance.  The funeral home claims Rihanna's demands came at a hefty price, notes TMZ.

Rihanna hasn't commented on the claims, but is currently home in Barbados spending time with her grandfather and other relatives during the annual Crop Over festival.

"Look who was pon de road yesterday! My grandfather Bravo!!! The whole family was out to all! #Heauxm#Culture #Tradition #CropOva #Family #BIM#Barbados."

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"I love my big lil brother @gallest #heauxm #barbados."

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Putin Ditches Car, Security, Takes Long Walk Following Funeral Of Judo Coach

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Russian President Vladimir Putin is known for his rugged spirit and unflinching exterior.

But he was so overcome following the funeral of his personal judo coach Anatoly Rachlin that he forcefully pushed past his car and security and went for a lone walk, reports Russia Today.

The tension is palpable as he tells his security to give him space.

Even though it is undoubtedly staged to an extent, like most of Putin's public outings, this moment is obviously imbued with the feeling of losing a teacher.

This is what it looks like when a former KGB colonel grieves for a lost friend.

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Rappers Drake And The Game Donate $20,000 For Funerals Of 5 Kids Who Died In Ohio Housefire

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Rappers Drake and The Game are teaming up to cover the funeral costs for a man and five children they never met.

Anna Angel was working her shift at Burger King on Sunday when a fire ripped through the family's mobile home in Ohio, killing her boyfriend and five young children.

The rappers posted a photo of the family to their Instagram accounts, pledging to donate $10,000 apiece to help the grieving mother cover the costs of burying her partner and kids.

Producers of The Game’s TV show are donating an additional $2,500.

The Game explained on his Instagram account:

I can deal with a lot of things but people losing their children is something that kills me every time. I cannot imagine the feeling she had at that moment & when I 1st read this story yesterday I just happened to be on the phone with DRAKE @champagnepapi & told him about it so he offered to help alongside me.

The Game, who recently pledged $1 million to The Robin Hood Project, also donated $10,000 to help out with another funeral after a 6-year-old girl was shot and killed in front of her home earlier this month.

Drake later posted about the situation, saying: "What [The Game] is doing will never be forgotten. Honored to be able to help people along side my brother."

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This Company Lets You Send Your Loved Ones' Ashes Into Space

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Instead of giving your loved ones a traditional burial, why not send them off in style with a memorial spaceflight?

That's the vision of Elysium Space, a company that aims to launch portions of cremated human remains into space.

Under Elysium Space's plan, human ashes will launch into space and orbit the Earth for several months before burning up in the atmosphere as a "shooting star."

The company has already launched a mobile app to track ashes in orbit, and hopes to launch its first memorial flight in 2014.

"A memorial spaceflight is a unique experience for family and friends to make a memory and remember a loved one," said Elysium Space founder Thomas Civeit, a former NASA engineer. "We believe that now is the time to change the vision of death from the Underground to the Celestial." [Watch a small rocket launch human ashes into space (Video)]

elysium ipad iphone appThe company is contracting with commercial space transportation companies such as Orbital Sciences and SpaceX, Civeit told SPACE.com, and the first launch is slated for summer 2014 from Cape Canaveral, Fla.

Elysium Space isn't the first company to offer memorial spaceflights for the deceased.

The Houston-based firm Celestis, Inc. has been launching human ashes into space since 1997. Its inaugural flight carried the remains of "Star Trek" creator Gene Roddenberry.

The remains of Roddenberry's wife were later launched alongside his in a 2009 flight. Celestis has also launched the ashes of "Star Trek" actor James Doohan, who portrayed "Scotty" in the TV franchise, along with the remains of Mercury astronaut Gordon Cooper.

When Elysium Space customers purchase a memorial spaceflight, they will receive a kit with an ash capsule, which can be engraved with up to three initials, and a mini-scoop for transferring "a symbolic portion" of ashes to the capsule, according to a product description. The price of a launch is currently set at $1,990.

Customers will ship their capsules to Elysium Space, which will pack them into the spacecraft. Elysium will also engrave a remembrance message of up to 80 characters on metal plates attached to the spacecraft.

After the memorial spacecraft launches, customers will be able to track their loved one's celestial journey on a free mobile app, available on Apple's App Store and Google play. The app will show, in real time, where the spacecraft is and how the world looks from that location.

After a few months in orbit, the spacecraft will re-enter the Earth's atmosphere, where it will burn up, leaving no space debris behind, Civeit said.

Civeit did not reveal how many people have signed up for an Elysium Space memorial flight yet, but did say there is "strong interest" for the service in both the United States and Japan. The company received orders within a week of its launch earlier this year.

"Funeral services have been changing over the last 50 years, transitioning from religious rituals to life celebration ceremonies," Civeit said. "Crossing the Milky Way and eventually becoming a shooting star is a poetic experience."

For more details on Elysium Space's space burial-tracking mobile app, click here.

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American Airlines Cancels Bereavement Fares

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American Airlines no longer offers emergency or bereavement fares, it announced quietly on its website, adding that it does "offer customers flexible fare options when booking last minute travel for a variety of reasons."

The new policy took effect February 18. According to Travelocity blog The Window Seat, the American's old policy had a fixed, reduced price for each route, and passengers could change their flight as needed. Back in 2004, SmarterTravel found a $40 difference between an American Airlines bereavement fare and the lowest online fare.

George Hobica, the founder of Airfarewatchdog, told Business Insider the bereavement fares weren't popular anyway, "because the savings weren't significant. You'd save more by using the name your own price option on Priceline and that's what I usually suggested people do when they had to travel last minute."

According to the AP, Southwest Airlines and Virgin America don't offer bereavement fares. United Airlines offers 5% off the lowest available fare.

In a statement, an American Airlines spokesperson said:

“We remain committed to doing all we can to relieve the burden of travel for our customers in times of need. With the advent of more choices, lower cost carriers and larger networks, the industry has started to move away from bereavement fares because walk-up fares are generally lower than in the past, and customers now have more opportunities to find affordable fares at the last minute.

"American is moving toward that industry trend and the airline offers customers changeable and refundable options with the ability to apply future reservations to bereavement travel without change fees. We believe this policy is a cost-effective solution for customers in need of bereavement travel.”

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Here's Why You Need About $7,000 Set Aside For Your Death

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As the saying goes, only two things are certain in life: death and taxes.

Frankly, we don't like thinking about either.

But data from the National Funeral Director's Association says we had better start thinking about our mortality — at least, as it relates to our bank account.

According to the NFDA, the median price of an American funeral in 2012 was about $7,000. Even a "simple" cremation costs an average of $3,200 (although Fox Business points out that you can snag a cheap urn for about $20 at Costco).

Prices will just keep rising, if the past 50 years are any indication:

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In a post on the blog Personal Capital, personal finance writer Holly Johnson recounts some of her experience working in a funeral home — namely, the costs. She writes:

… The cost of an average funeral doesn’t include cemetery expenses such as burial space, a burial vault, the opening and closing of a grave, or a headstone. When accounting for those expenses, the average cost for a traditional funeral rises dramatically, usually to somewhere between $9,000 and $12,000. I’ve even seen hundreds of families spend upwards of $15,000 or more over the years.

Johnson goes on to explain that many families are caught unawares by the costs of burying or cremating their loved ones, and some have to go into credit card debt to do it. "Now they are stressed over losing their loved one and having thousands of dollars in new debt," she says. She remembers families who were surprised that their loved one's life insurance either didn't cover the funeral costs or had lapsed, and families who had done nothing to plan for their inevitable demise.

Who wants to leave their family miserable and indebted? While we could caution 75-year-olds to start saving, it's a lot easier for a professional with at least one steady income stream to get ahead on savings than for a retiree. No one's saying you need an account marked "funeral" (that's bit morbid, even for the most responsible saver), but the numbers show that getting in the habit of putting money away today will benefit you to the very end.

Hat tip to Financial Samurai.

SEE ALSO: 4 Signs You Picked The Wrong Health Insurance Plan

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Here's What Joan Rivers Wanted Her Funeral To Be Like

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Joan Rivers died Thursday at the age of 81, but the topic was something that had been on her mind for a while.

In her 2013 book "I Hate Everyone ... Starting With Me," Joan jokingly addressed death, her will, and the glamorous funeral she hoped for:

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Joan had some other great quotes on life and death:

  • "I've had so much plastic surgery, when I die they will donate my body to Tupperware."
  • "I enjoy life when things are happening. I don't care if it's good things or bad things. That means you're alive. Things are happening."
  •  "I have become my own version of an optimist. If I can't make it through one door, I'll go through another door—or I'll make a door. Something terrific will come no matter how dark the present."

 

Joan has also joked about not wanting to die a natural death:Joan Rivers comments on death

SEE ALSO: Joan Rivers Once Joked About Not Wanting To Die A Natural Death

MORE: Here's An Amazing Scene From 'Louie' In Which Joan Rivers Explains Why She's A Comedian

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Tons Of Celebrities Showed Up For Joan Rivers' NYC Funeral

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Joan Rivers once joked that she wanted her funeral to be"huge showbiz affair with lights, camera, action" complete with "paparazzi and publicists making a scene." At the comedy legend's funeral Sunday, she got just that.

More than 40 celebrities attended Rivers' funeral at Temple Emanu-El in New York City.

Howard Stern delivered the eulogyduring the memorial service, followed by Tony Award-winner Audra McDonald singing “Smile” and Hugh Jackman performing "Quiet Please, There's a Lady on Stage." To top it off, the New York City Gay Men's Chorus singing a string of Broadway hits.

According to The Associated Press, three of Rivers’ famous lines were printed on the funeral program: “Can we talk?” "Who are you wearing?” and “Because I'm a funny person.”

Mourners exited the synagogue behind bagpipers who performed "New York, New York" and "Give My Regards to Broadway."

Joan's daughter, Melissa, and grandson, Cooper, led the procession to the awaiting cars.melissa rivers son Cooper joan rivers funeral

Howard Stern, who interviewed Joan several times on his XM radio show and gave the eulogy, attended with wife Beth Stern.howard stern funeralSarah Jessica Parker paid her respects.sarah jessica parker funeralAs did her husband, Matthew Broderick, and son, James Wilkie.matthew broderick joan rivers funeralJoan's "Fashion Police" co-host Kelly Osbourne was there, along with E!'s Giuliana Rancic.Kelly Osbourne joan rivers funeralDonald Trump, who worked with Joan on "Celebrity Apprentice," and wife Melania paid their condolences. donald trump melania trump joan rivers funeralAlong with Ivanka Trump and husband Jared Kushner.jared kushner ivanka trump joan rivers funeralJoan's good friend Barbara Walters waved hello to the hundreds of fans standing across the street from the memorial service.barbara walters joan rivers funeralRosie O'Donnell was clearly emotional.Rosie O'Donnell joan rivers funeralO'Donnell's former "View" co-host Whoopi Goldberg was there.Whoopi GoldbergAs was Joy Behar.joy behar joan rivers funeralABC News' Diane Sawyer.diane sawyer joan rivers funeral"Today Show" co-hosts Kathie Lee Griffin and Hoda Kotb.kathie lee hoda funeralComedian Kathy Griffin, who appeared on "Celebrity Apprentice" with Joan.Kathy Griffin joan rivers funeralActor Denis Leary.Denis Leary

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Dr. Oz and wife Lisa Oz.dr oz wifeGeraldo Rivera.Geraldo Rivera Joan Rivers FuneralJudge Judy.judge judy joan rivers funeralFashion designer Carolina Herrera took a break from New York Fashion Week to attend.carolina herreraAs did Oscar de la Renta.Oscar de la Renta taxi nycMusic exec/producer Clive Davis.Clive Davis joan rivers funeralThe Emerald Society led the procession of mourners out with "New York, New York" and "Give My Regards to Broadway."joan rivers funeral bagpipesRivers’ publicist has asked that in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to God’s Love We Deliver, Guide Dogs for the Blind, or Our House.

Rivers died Thursday at age 81 after complications from routine surgery on her vocal chords.

SEE ALSO: Here's What Joan Rivers Wanted Her Funeral To Be Like

MORE: Joan Rivers Once Considered Suicide But Here's What Stopped Her

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Read The Humorous Eulogy Melissa Rivers Gave At Joan Rivers' Funeral

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It may have been a sad day, but Joan Rivers' star-studded funeral on Sunday was also full of laughs thanks to a raunchy eulogy by Howard Stern and a light-hearted letter from daughter, Melissa Rivers.

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Melissa read an excerpt from "A Letter to My Mom," a book that will be published in April. In the letter, the 46-year-old "landlord" scolds her 81-year-old mother/tenant for too much partying and corrupting her 13-year-old son, Cooper.

In recent years, Joan had been staying in a small guest room in Melissa's L.A. home where she stayed for the one day a week she flew in from New York to tape E!'s "Fashion Police."

The bi-coastal relationship was the subject line of the mother-daughter duo's WE tv reality show, "Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best?"

Read Melissa's letter, first published on The Hollywood Reporter, below:

Mom:

I received the note that you slipped under my bedroom door last night. I was very excited to read it, thinking that it would contain amazing, loving advice that you wanted to share with me. Imagine my surprise when I opened it and saw that it began with the salutation, "Dear Landlord." I have reviewed your complaints and address them below:

1. While I appreciate your desire to "upgrade" your accommodations to a larger space, I cannot, in good conscience, move [my 13-year-old son] Cooper into the laundry room. I do agree that it will teach him a life lesson about fluffing and folding, but since I don't foresee him having a future in dry cleaning, I must say no.

Also, I know you are a true creative genius (and I am in awe of the depth of your instincts), but breaking down a wall without my permission is not an appropriate way to express that creativity. It is not only a boundary violation but a building-code violation as well. Additionally, the repairman can't get here until next week, so your expansion plan will have to be put on hold.

2. Re: Your fellow "tenant" (your word), Cooper. While I trust you with him, it is not OK for you to undermine my rules. It is not OK that you let him have chips and ice cream for dinner. It is not OK that you let him skip school to go to the movies. And it is really not OK that the movie was Last Tango in Paris.

As for your taking his friends to a "gentlemen's club," I accepted your rationale that it was an educational experience for the boys — and you are right, he is the most popular kid in school right now — but I'd prefer he not learn biology from those "gentlemen" and their ladies, Bambi, Trixie and Kitten. And just because I yelled at you, I do not appreciate your claim that I have created a hostile living environment.

3. While I'm glad to see you're socializing, you must refill the hot tub after your parties. In fact, you need to tone down the parties altogether. Imagine my surprise when I saw the photos you posted on Facebook of your friends frolicking topless in the hot tub.

I think it's great that you're entertaining more often, but I can't keep fielding complaints from the neighbors about your noisy party games like Ring Around the Walker or naked Duck, Duck Caregiver.

I'm more than happy to have you use the house for social gatherings, but you cannot rent it out, advertise as "party central" or hand out T-shirts that say "F— Jimmy Buffett."

In closing, I hope I have satisfactorily answered your complaints and queries. I love having you live with me, and I am grateful for every minute Cooper and I have with you. You are an inspiration. You are also 30 days late with the rent.

Much love,

Melissa

The mother and daughter had a famously close relationship.

The two remained strong at the 1987 funeral of Edgar Rosenberg, Joan's husband and Melissa's father.Joan Rivers Melissa Rivers funeralIn 1996, they began hosting E!'s "Live from the Red Carpet" at major awards shows.

Here's Joan joking with Melissa at the 59th Annual Golden Globe Awards in 2002.Joan Rivers Melissa RiversIn 2003, they were back on the red carpet for the following year's Globes.joan rivers melissa rivers 2In 2004, they hosted the red carpet for the Academy Awards.joan rivers melissa rivers 3In 2005, they covered the red carpet at the Academy Awards for TV Guide.joan rivers melissa rivers They showed affection again at the 2006 Academy Awards.joan rivers melissa rivers 6And at the Emmys in 2006.joan rivers melissa rivers They stayed close in 2007 at the Academy Awards.joan rivers melissa rivers And celebrated Joan's "Celebrity Apprentice" win in 2009, despite competing against each other on the show.joan rivers melissa rivers Melissa supported her mother during 2009's Comedy Central roast.joan rivers melissa riversAnd the two celebrated the second season of their WEtv reality show "Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best?" in 2012.joan rivers melissa riversMelissa produced E!'s "Fashion Police," on which Joan starred.joan rivers fashion policeBut they still worked the red carpet together, recently at last year's Do Something Awards.joan rivers melissa rivers In January, they were each others' dates to a pre-Grammy gala.joan rivers melissa rivers And in May attended the NBCUniversal upfronts to promote "Fashion Police."joan rivers melissa rivers 13Joan was scheduled to shoot "Fashion Police" in New York City the week she died at age 81.

SEE ALSO: Tons Of Celebrities Showed Up For Joan Rivers' NYC Funeral

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Emotional Photos Show Fellow Officers Honoring A Fallen NYPD Cop

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The middle-class Queens neighborhood of Glendale was transformed Saturday by the funeral for the NYPD officer assassinated the week before.

Thousands of officers swarmed the streets to honor Officer Rafael Ramos, a 40-year-old father of two, who was killed alongside his partner, Wenjian Liu, while sitting in their patrol car the previous Saturday. Police identified the killer as Ismaaiyl Brinsley and said he had targeted the officers as revenge for the controversial deaths of unarmed black men during arrests in Staten Island, New York, and Ferguson, Missouri.

"Every time I attend a cop's funeral, I pray that it will be the last," NYPD Commissioner Bill Bratton said at the funeral, according to his prepared remarks. "But I know it won't. As I watch the casket carried past all those salutes, I wish it weren't real. But it is."

According to The New York Times, services for Liu have been delayed so families members can make arrangements to travel from China.

View photos from Saturday's event below.

The sun rises as an NYPD officer walks toward Christ Tabernacle Church, where the services were held.

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 Motorcycle officers lead the funeral procession.

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Mourners stand at a barricade near Christ Tabernacle Church.

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Thousands of police officers and others stand at attention as the hearse passes by.

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Thousands salute during the National Anthem.

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Upset with Mayor Bill de Blasio's controversial remarks about the Eric Garner case, police turned their back on de Blasio's eulogy for Ramos.

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Thousands of police officers stand at attention as a procession carrying Ramos passes by after his funeral.

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Sons Jaden Ramos, left, and Justin Ramos, sit in a limousine following the services.

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This 'NYPD Funeral' Photo That's Going Viral On Twitter Is Not From This Weekend

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On Saturday, thousands of men and women in uniform paid their respects at the funeral of Officer Rafael Ramos, one of the two officers who were killed in Brooklyn on December 20th.

Photos of the procession made their way around the internet, but BuzzFeed points out that one in particular continued to be shared all over social media by many NYPD precincts.

But the photo, showing a sea of officers, is not from Ramos' funeral. 

BuzzFeed reports the photo (above) is from 2007, at the funeral of NYPD Officer Russel Timoshenko, who was also killed in the line of duty. He was only 23.

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Many precincts who had shared the photo deleted their tweets after the BuzzFeed article was published.

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Here's How To Pay Less For A Funeral, Gathered From 7 Years Working Alongside A Funeral Director

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The loss of a family member can be too much for some people to bear, but learning how much a funeral can cost is enough to send many over the edge.

I've seen it too many times to count.

My husband has been a funeral director for most of his adult life, and I worked alongside him for almost seven years.

And the story, while always tragic and heartbreaking in its own way, is almost always the same.

A family member dies unexpectedly or after a long illness. Spouses, siblings, aunts, and uncles gather to make meaningful plans for a burial or cremation.

Almost always, someone in the family balks at the cost. "This is going to cost how much?" they'll exclaim. And sometimes, they blame the funeral home.

But that isn't necessarily fair, as there are many reasons why funeral bills are more complex than ever.

What funeral bills are made of

According to the National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA), the national median cost of a funeral was $7,045 in 2012, the last year for which they provide data. If you add a burial vault to the bill, the cost jumps to $8,343.

Included in those costs are a wide range of services and merchandise, including a basic non-declinable service fee, fee for removal and delivery of the body, embalming, preparation of the body for viewing, building fees for visitation and funeral services, hearse and service vehicle fees, fees for printed materials, and the average cost of a metal casket.

However, another column consisting of cash-advance items will generally be added to your bill, and this can include things like flowers you've ordered, newspaper obituaries, death certificates, clergy payments, and taxes levied on merchandise. The funeral home pays these expenses on your behalf with the agreement that you will pay them back.

Here's what you should know

The funeral home's basic service fee is non-declinable and required, but you do have some power when it comes to keeping costs down for the remainder of your funeral bill.

For example, the cremation rate has climbed to 43.2% in 2012, up from only 3.6% in 1960. And even though the trend may be due to other factors in some cases, such as environmental concerns, no one can deny that cremation can save you money. According to the Cremation Association of North America, the average cremation runs about $3,200, or less than half the cost of a traditional burial.

But contrary to popular belief, you can still have a funeral if you opt for cremation. Many funeral homes will prepare the body for viewing and even rent you a casket for the right price. Then, instead of heading to the cemetery, you'll be cremated instead. The cost savings can be considerable.

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Other ways to save

But cremation isn't the only way to save while you pay your final respects. If you have your heart set on traditional burial for yourself or a family member, there are still plenty of ways to keep costs down. Here are a few ideas:

Say no to the fancy casket and vault: According to the NFDA, an average metal casket costs around $2,395. However, there are plenty of lower-cost metal caskets out there, along with plenty of cheaper vault options as well. Your funeral home may not have these items on display, but that doesn't mean they can't order them for you.

Ask to see their catalog of casket and vault options and look for those that offer the most value. According to the Federal Trade Commission, the funeral director is required to show you a list of caskets with pricing before showing you the caskets themselves.

Buy from a discount casket provider: With prices surging, discount casket providers have popped up all over the country. These storefronts often offer caskets that are drastically discounted, and even some that are scratch-and-dent or have been discontinued.

The funeral home may prefer that you buy one of their caskets, but they can't insist that you do. And remember, laws governing funeral homes require that they accept caskets from all third-party providers without charging you a fee.

Go basic for flowers, paper goods, and other non-necessities: Flowers and printed materials can generally be as inexpensive or elaborate as you want them to be. But if you want to save, flowers are a huge expense that can easily be avoided or at least minimized.

Instead of going for the priciest casket spray and accompaniments out there, opt to go basic instead. Then decorate the viewing room with family photos and meaningful objects from your loved one's life instead.

Forgo the standard obituary: A standard obituary in a large newspaper can cost $1,000 or more. But with the popularity of the Internet and social media, it hardly makes sense to fork over that much cash for something you can generally get for free.

Instead of paying for overly expensive obituaries, use a funeral home that posts obituaries and service details online in a format that is easily shareable. Share on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and email friends and family members who may live far away. Ask others to help get the word out as well and you will likely accomplish as much, if not more, than a standard obituary could on its own.

When planning a funeral, it's important to arm yourself with as much information as possible so you're not making decisions based purely on emotion. At the end of the day, the fancy casket, vault, and flowers may not make your loss any easier, and could even make life harder by saddling you with unnecessary bills — or even debt.

So learn as much as you can and save in whatever ways seem the most reasonable to you. The best ways to honor your loved one — remembering their story and sharing it — don't cost a thing.

You shouldn't have to go broke to say goodbye. And with the proper amount of research and planning, you won't have to.

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The Co-op's revenue was hit because fewer Britons died last year

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The Co-operative Group is attempting to "rescue, rebuild, renew" itself after a range of personnel scandals and financial issues dogged the company over the last two years.

The company, which is the UK's largest mutual business and is owned by more than eight million members, has faced increased competition among the supermarkets and has sold off its farms and pharmacies over the last year to shore up cash.

However, the Co-op can't seem to catch a break.

Co-op revealed in a trading statement for the 52 weeks ending January 3, 2015, that while it is frantically "rebuilding" the company and focusing on certain businesses, its revenue was hit because less Britons died last year.

The Co-op said that its funeralcare business saw sales fall almost 2%, by £7 million, which was "affected by a particularly low death rate."

Other sales figures in the trading update show a fall too:

  • Group revenue of £9.4 billion in 2014, (2013: £9.7 billion)
  • Group underlying operating profit £172 million (2013: £177 million)
  • General insurance revenue fell to £371 million (2013: £476m)
  • Legal services' revenues declined by a third to £23 million and made £5 million in losses for 2014.

The group even said that its profits were buoyed up from the sale of its farms and pharmacies business (emphasis ours):

"We made solid progress in 2014 as we successfully concluded the Rescue phase of our turnaround. The hard work of Rebuilding The Co-operative Group for the next generation, and restoring it to its rightful place at the heart of communities up and down the UK, is now underway," said Richard Pennycook, Chief Executive of The Co-op Group, in a statement.

“A significant element of our 2014 profit relates to one-off disposal gains on the sale of our Farms and Pharmacy businesses and property disposals. Without these we would, at best, have broken even. Against that backdrop, and given the need to invest in all our businesses, the Board will not be recommending a dividend to members and believes that a resumption of dividend payments is unlikely until the Rebuild phase is complete and we have returned to sustainable profitable growth.”

However, it wasn't all doom and gloom for the Co-op, less people may have died in 2014 to help sales but more people were buying its food.

The Co-op, which is the UK's fifth biggest food retailer with almost 2,800 local, convenience and medium-sized stores, revealed that like-for-like sales were up 0.4% overall.

"We acquired 82 new convenience stores and refurbished more than 700 stores; prices were lowered across 40 categories and the investment in own-brand product continued with over 170 awards for quality won during the year," said the group.

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Gangs threaten to 'take out' Baltimore police as funeral held for man who died in custody

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Freddie Gray arrest videoBALTIMORE (Reuters) - The Baltimore Police Department on Monday reported receiving a "credible threat" that several gangs were planning to try to "take out" law enforcement officers, the same day of a funeral for a city man who died in police custody.

The department urged officers to take steps to ensure their safety.

The death of 25-year-old Freddie Gray has led to protests in the latest outcry over U.S. law enforcement's treatment of minorities. Police say Gray died of a neck injury on April 19 after being arrested on April 12.

At the funeral, a long line of mourners stretched out of the front door of the New Shiloh Baptist Church.

"I am here to show that Freddie's loss of life was not in vain," said Joe Jones, head of the Center for Urban Families, which provides aid to local residents.

"There's a lot of frustration, a lot of disappointment," he said. "This is a microcosm of things that are happening" to young black men across the United States.

Gray's body, clad in a white shirt, black tie and dark pants, lay in an open coffin at the head of the altar of the church, which holds 2,500 people.

A choir accompanied by a small instrumental group performed religious music before the funeral started.

President Barack Obama was sending Broderick Johnson, the head of his initiative for minority males, to attend Gray's funeral, the White House said.

Protests in the largely black city have been mostly peaceful, but vandalism and violence flared during a march on Saturday. Thirty-five people were arrested, six officers were hurt, and Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake and police blamed outside agitators for the unrest.

The protest was the latest expression of a national outcry over a white-dominated U.S. law enforcement establishment that civil rights leaders accuse of routinely mistreating black people.

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Gray was arrested when he fled from police in a high-crime area. He was carrying a switchblade knife, and he was put inside a transport van to be taken to a police station.

At some point, Gray suffered the spinal injury that led to his death. City Police Commissioner Anthony Batts said on Friday that officers failed to give him timely medical attention while he was in custody and failed to seatbelt him.

Police have said they would conclude their investigation by Friday and forward the results to state prosecutors. Six police officers have been suspended, and the U.S. Justice Department is investigating the incident for possible civil rights violations.

(Editing by Scott Malone and Lisa Von Ahn)

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Why we now cremate half of our dead in the US

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A half-century ago, nearly everyone who died in the U.S. was buried. Only about 4 percent were cremated. Now, we cremate half our dead. The map above shows cremation rates by state and animates over the past 15 years; during that relatively brief timespan in several states—particularly in the South and Midwest—cremation rates have doubled. Why the shift?

Money is the biggest reason. “The vast majority of people are looking at value,” says Barbara Kemmis, executive director of the Cremation Association of North America. The average cremation with a memorial service is $3,250 while the average funeral is $7,045, according to the National Funeral Directors Association.

As the map shows, cremation tends to be more popular in coastal and mountain regions, where land for gravesites is more expensive. Kemmis notes that there seems to be an increase in so-called direct cremation, the cheapest means of disposal, in which you skip the memorial service altogether.

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Another influence on cremation-vs.-burial rates is the fact that families are more dispersed than in the past, making it harder to visit gravesites, Kemmis says. Unsurprisingly, cremation rates are highest in places full of newcomers (such as California) and retirees (Florida, Nevada).

Meanwhile, spiritual views of the body and soul have also changed. Christians historically believed that the body should be preserved whole in the hopes of reunification with the soul at the end of days, says Stephen Prothero, author of Purified by Fire: A History of Cremation in America. But the ’60s ushered in a wave of New Age notions that reflected a new view of the body as subordinate to the soul, like reincarnation, karma, and transcendence. Cremation acquired a “countercultural cachet”—it was giving the “middle finger to God,” according to Prothero.

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(The Catholic Church eased its restrictions on cremation in 1963 but still looks down on it.) As the counterculture has gone mainstream, so has cremation. As the map shows, states tend to gather momentum on cremation rates fairly quickly. Kemmis calls this the “new tradition” effect: Once the first family member is cremated, the taboo is broken and other family members follow suit.

Cremation is more environmentally friendly than burial, and it’s easier to “customize,” as Kemmis puts it. You can enshrine cremated remains in customs urns or jewelry; you can spread them across a beloved landscape, or two, or three; you can divide them among multiple family members. You can embed them in a painting. Prothero once met a family that had packed some cremated remains into a bullet for hunting deer. “You dream it, you can do it with cremated remains,” Kemmis says, adding, “sorry, I get really excited about this stuff.”

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Here's where your dead body is more likely to be cremated than buried

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Someone who dies in Mississippi this year is far more likely to be buried than someone who dies in Oregon.

We looked at data from the National Funeral Directors Association's 2015 projections for burial rates and cremation rates in each state. Nationally, the Association projects that cremations will outnumber burials in the US: 48.2% of this year's deceased will be cremated, as opposed to 45.8% being buried.

On the state by state level, cremation is much more popular in the West. In Nevada, 77.8% of bodies are projected to be cremated. Meanwhile, burials still predominate in the Appalachian South.

Here's a map showing the geographical variance in funeral types. States that are purple have higher burial rates than cremation rates, while orange states have higher cremation than burial rates. Darker states have bigger percentage point differences between burial rates and cremation rates:

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And here's a chart showing burial and cremation rates in each state, ordered from where cremation is most likely to least likely:

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People are turning their deceased loved ones' remains into jewelry — and it's gorgeous

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Dying is expensiveThe average cost of a funeral with burial and headstone ranges from $7,000 to $10,000. 

But a less costly alternative to this traditional practice has been gaining popularity in recent years: Cremation. 

For about a decade, if you had a couple thousand dollars at the minimum then "memorial diamondsmade from the carbon found in ashes were an alternative to a traditional urn. Now, a new company with a lower cost technique and greater attention to design will transform your loved one's ashes into a treasured keepsake.   

Grateful Glass

Grateful Glass was started in 2012 by 31-year-old Matthew Olian. The company offers everything from hand-blown glass pendants, rings, and cuffs to sparkling orbs and urns made with Pyrex glass and, of course, ash.

Olian got started blowing glass as a sophomore in high school after watching a documentary on famous sculptor Dale Chihuly. Soon after, Olian's mother allowed him to set up his own small studio in their garage.

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Through college at the University of Vermont and during an apprenticeship in Murano, Italy, he continued to hone his craft, and by 2007, Olian was spending most of his time on the road, traveling from trade show to trade show to show his work.

During one of his shows, a customer asked Olian to make a memorial pendant. Having never heard of the concept, Olian was surprised, but determined.He took on the order and, within a few weeks, he managed to deliver the piece.

"It was one of those moments where I was like 'Wow, this is a really special concept, and I don't think anyone else is doing it and I should run with it,'" Olian recalls.

"It was a pretty special feeling to give this[customer] such happiness through my work," he said.

With a little research, Olian discovered how many people were turning to cremation, and realized he'd found an untapped market for memorial keepsakes. Even once he'd recognized this potential business opportunity, Olian still had no idea how — or even if he could — create a company out of the idea.

It was around thistime that Olian's grandmother fell ill and became increasingly sick. She had no idea that her illness would leave behind a special gift that allowed Grateful Glass to, quite literally, rise from the ashes.

Olian needed sample pieces to show his clients, he recalled, and his grandmother told him it was her wish to be cremated.

"By the time I had decided this is what I wanted to do, she had just passed away," said Olian. "So all of the sample pieces are made from her ashes.” 

Close to a decade after his journey with glassmaking began, Olian launched Grateful Glass. Word of his new business spread — he quickly connected himself with a large network of funeral homes around the country.

The process

Today, Olian continues to create all of his pieces by hand, with occasional assistance from interns. 

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First, he receives the ash from his customers, which is mostly bone, and is made up of calcium phosphates and small traces of other minerals. Then, he combines it with molten glass using his own encasement methods unique to each piece he designs. Over the years, he said he's found the perfect combination of temperature and time to produce a piece of glass that showcases cremated remains in the best way possible.

Given the subtle chemical variations in remains, the ashes react differently with the glass each time, Olian said.

"Sometimes the encased ashes look like a myriad of flecks while others create more organic bubble patterns. Sometimes they even produce interesting colors through the piece," said Olian. 

Olian also makes keepsakes for people's pets.orange_orb_1

In fact, he estimates that between 35% and 40% of his orders are for former dog and cat owners. While he works with pet crematories, Olian says most of his customers who are looking for pet memorials find him by searching online.  

"Something you can always keep on you"

Although he wouldn’t reveal specific numbers to Business Insider, Olian did tell us that he receives orders for his pieces daily and ships them all over the world. Last year, he said, the business grew by 25% on pieces that range from $150 to $375. He is also commissioned to make unique pieces for several thousand dollars, he said.

Due to the delicate nature and sensitivity of his business, Olian says he does most of his promotion through word-of-mouth and his funeral home network, but he also has a Facebook page filled with comments from happy customers.

But he adds, "Having something tangible can provide a lot of comfort and a lot of closure particularly if it’s something on a smaller scale that you can always keep on you."

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12 creative caskets that puts the 'fun' in funeral

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RTXG5FDFor some eccentric souls, traditional caskets and cremation urns just won’t do.

Luckily, for those looking to leave this world on a more outlandish note, there are options out there to help fulfill those somewhat bizarre afterlife requests.

From odes to beloved comic book heroes to soccer ball urns, click ahead to see some truly out-of-the-box options.

Victor Perez Cardona’s last dying wish was to be behind the wheel of his taxi cab. With help from the funeral home and special embalming techniques, Victor’s family was able to fulfill his request.



For his funeral, Renato Garcia was dressed in the costume of his favorite comic book character, the Green Lantern.



Soccer fans can have their ashes kept in a soccer-shaped urn created by Vienna's municipal funeral services.



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